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Dating over 60: a practical guide
Sunday, 07 September 2025
Whether you're after romance, companionship or someone to share life with, here's our guide to dating later in life.
Just because you’ve retired doesn’t mean your love life has.
More older Aussies are dating later in life and seeing this time as a chance to connect, meet someone new and enjoy good old fashioned companionship.
Of course, dating again can feel exciting… and a bit daunting. You might be widowed, divorced or simply used to your own space, but the idea of putting yourself out there often brings a mix of emotions: hope, nerves, curiosity... and maybe a little fear too.
You might be wondering how to date as you grow older or if it’s too late to start over. After years of doing life your own way, it’s a big step.
But here’s the truth: connection matters at every age. If you're ready to explore dating again (or even just thinking about it) you’re in good company. Some of the best love stories begin in retirement.
What dating in retirement really looks like
You’ve lived. You’ve loved. And now you know who you are and what matters to you. That kind of clarity only comes with experience.
Dating over 60 can still come with butterflies and the thrill of meeting someone new. It’s also shaped by what you’ve been through. Your past doesn’t have to hold you back, but it often influences how you approach relationships now.
The dating landscape also looks a bit different than it once did, especially with apps and websites in the mix. Interestingly, 9% of retirees living in retirement villages are open to trying online dating, according to the Keyton Retirement Living Lifestyle Report. That’s nearly twice as many as those living outside village communities.
But even though technology has changed things a bit, the core goal of dating is still the same. It’s about finding a genuine connection: good conversation, shared values and easy companionship.
❤️ Tip: Be open and take things at your own pace. You don’t need to impress anyone, just be yourself.
When you’ve loved and lost
If you’ve lost a partner, the thought of dating again can bring up a mix of emotions - grief, guilt, nerves. Grief doesn’t follow a set timeline and there’s no rule for when you should move forward. If you’re feeling uncertain, take a breath. You’re allowed to go gently.
It helps to talk it through with someone you trust. Just naming how you feel can ease the emotional weight.
For George and Pam, love found them through shared interests and the warmth of a welcoming community at Evelyn Ridge in Victoria. Some time after losing their respective spouses, they met through a village food and wine group. Read their story of how love blossomed over time.
❤️ Tip: Focus on things that bring you joy. Join a walking group, pick up a hobby or attend a community event. You’ll build confidence and meet new people along the way.
Pam and George fell in love with their new retirement lifestyle - and with each other.
How to step back in to dating
1. Start social. Some of the best connections begin with a friendly chat over a cuppa. Say yes to group activities, hobbies or local events - it’s a relaxed way to meet people and make new friends.
2. Get clear on what you want. Are you looking for love, friendship or simply some good company? Reflect on what suits you best, there’s no one-size-fits-all.
3. Ask a friend to set you up. Sometimes the people who know you best are great matchmakers. Let a trusted friend or neighbour know you’re open to meeting someone, they might just have someone in mind who’s looking for the same thing.
4. Try tech. Dating apps are helping people of all ages find connection.
- SilverSingles is a seniors dating app for over 60s who are looking for long term relationships.
- eHarmony is popular across all age groups for people seeking something meaningful.
10 apps for everyday life in retirement
5. Take your time and trust your instincts. There’s no rush. Let things unfold naturally and pay attention to how you feel. If something doesn’t sit right, it’s okay to step back.
💡Remember: Dating today comes with more opportunities than ever, but it’s still important to stay alert. Romance scams are out there, so get to know the signs. For advice, visit Scamwatch.
Scam alert: 5 scams retirees should know about
Real stories, real connections
One of the best things about retirement village life is how easily connection happens. Unlike online dating or blind meet ups, retirement living brings people together naturally through shared hobbies, sporting groups and regular social events.
❤️ In our villages, we’ve seen first hand how dating in later life can bring some of the most unexpected and meaningful love stories. Read more about how romance has blossomed in our villages.
For more information about the lifestyle and support offered at our retirement villages, call our customer service team on 1800 550 550 or send us an email here.
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