Talking about retirement living with your family might feel like a tricky subject, but it doesn’t have to be uncomfortable.
Whether you're trying to gently nudge your parents toward a bit more support or reassuring your partner that downsizing won’t cramp their style, here are a our tips for how to talk to your family about moving to a retirement village.
Everyone’s retirement journey is unique, and recognising when it’s time for a change can take time. Rather than jumping straight in, try easing into the conversation. You could casually bring up how a family friend or neighbour made the move to a retirement village. No pressure, just gently opening the door for future chats.
When it’s time to get serious, expect some concerns. Your loved one might worry about losing their independence or leaving their home (and decades of memories) behind. Take the time to really listen and remind them that there are many real life stories showing how retirement village life actually adds more freedom, rather than taking it away.
There are many real life stories showing how retirement village life actually adds more freedom, rather than taking it away.
A few solid facts can go a long way in easing worries about a big move. The Keyton Retirement Living Lifestyle Report shows that retirement villages genuinely boost the quality of life for Aussie retirees.
According to the report, 65% of residents feel safer, 46% feel less isolated, and 40% feel more supported after making the move to retirement living. Even better, 57% of Aussies aged 75 and over who live in retirement villages say their social connections are strong, which is far better than other age groups.
Sharing these stats gives your loved ones more than just opinions; it’s real proof that retirement village life can boost their wellbeing and help them retire with confidence.
65% of residents feel safer, 46% feel less isolated, and 40% feel more supported after making the move to retirement living
Retirement living offers independent seniors the chance to enjoy a vibrant community, filled with social activities, wellbeing programs and easy access to healthcare and services - all while being surrounded by friendly, supportive neighbours. Michaela and her mum Roz’s story is a perfect example. By helping Roz focus on the positives of retirement living at Annesley Bowral, Michaela was able to show her mum how her quality of life would improve.
The old stereotypes about retirement villages are a thing of the past, and they should not be mistaken for aged care. These days, retirement villages are more than just a place to live, they offer a complete lifestyle. For your parents, the sense of community might be the biggest appeal, while for your partner, it could be the peace of mind that comes with leaving the maintenance and upkeep of a large family property behind.
Retirement villages are more than just a place to live, they offer a complete lifestyle.
Nothing beats hearing about the lifestyle straight from those who are living it. You can suggest reading a few resident stories to your loved ones or, even better, visit a village in person.
Taking a tour of a few villages can show just how lively and fulfilling modern retirement living can be. Hearing firsthand experiences will help your loved ones picture themselves thriving in this next chapter.
Many residents often say they wish they’d made the move sooner, so starting the conversation early can help your loved ones see the benefits and embrace the idea of a change.
Taking a tour of a few villages can show just how lively and fulfilling modern retirement living can be.
Sometimes, a fresh perspective from a professional can make all the difference. When it comes to planning retirement finances, finding an adviser who can lend a helping hand with the right financial advice is key.
Having an expert’s advice can help your loved ones feel secure in their decision, knowing they’re on the right financial path. Plus, it’s always nice to have someone else on your team who understands the details!
Having an expert’s advice can help your loved ones feel secure in their decision, knowing they’re on the right financial path.
Big decisions take time and that’s perfectly okay. Don’t expect your loved ones to make up their minds right away.
Give them the time they need to consider their options, while keeping the conversation open and supportive. Letting them come to their own decision helps them feel in control, making it easier to move forward with confidence.
Big decisions take time and that’s perfectly okay.
By approaching the conversation with a light touch, an open mind and a positive outlook, you can help your family explore the idea of retirement village living – and maybe even get excited about what’s next!
